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How to Calm Down a Stressed Dog

December 01, 20244 min read

Expert Techniques and Alternative Support

Dogs can experience stress for various reasons, such as changes in their environment, separation anxiety, or exposure to unfamiliar situations. As pet owners, it’s our responsibility to identify the root cause of their stress and implement effective strategies to help them feel calm and secure. From expert-recommended techniques to alternative solutions like pheromones and flower essences, this guide explores proven methods to soothe your dog.

Understanding Canine Stress

The first step in calming a stressed dog is recognizing the signs. These can include pacing, excessive barking, trembling, chewing, or other destructive behaviors. Stress can also manifest physically through a lack of appetite, diarrhea, or skin irritations. Understanding your dog’s triggers—whether it’s loud noises, new surroundings, or separation—can help you determine the most effective intervention.

Techniques from Dog Trainers and Animal Behaviorists

Desensitization and Counterconditioning

A professional dog trainer can teach desensitization techniques to help your dog gradually become less reactive to their stress triggers. For example, if your dog is afraid of loud noises, they can be exposed to those sounds at a low volume, paired with positive reinforcement like treats. Over time, this reduces their fear response.

Interactive Play and Mental Stimulation

Engaging your dog’s mind with puzzles, scent games, or obedience training can redirect their focus and help alleviate stress. Trainers often incorporate interactive play into behavior-modification programs to build trust and reduce anxiety.

Body Language Training

Understanding canine body language is crucial. Professional behaviorists can help you identify subtle cues of stress, such as a lowered tail, lip licking, or whale eye (when the whites of a dog’s eyes are visible). Learning to respond appropriately to these signals builds a stronger bond and reassures your dog.

Alternative Supports for Stress Relief

Pheromones, Diffusers, and Collars

Pheromones mimic the natural calming chemicals that mother dogs produce for their puppies. These products are available in diffusers, sprays, and collars, creating a comforting environment for stressed dogs.

Flower Essences

Natural flower essences offer gentle emotional support for stressed dogs. Specifically designed blends can help alleviate stress related to separation anxiety, fear of storms, or changes in routine. Unlike synthetic medications, flower essences work subtly by addressing the emotional root of the issue. For example, a custom blend from Calm Animal Solutions has helped dogs reduce reactive barking, relax around other animals, and adjust to new environments.

Aromatherapy

Certain essential oils, like lavender or chamomile, can have a calming effect on dogs. Always use dog-safe products and consult a professional aromatherapist or veterinarian before introducing them.

Diffuse essential oils in a well-ventilated area.

Avoid direct application unless recommended by an expert.

Music Therapy

Dogs respond positively to soothing music designed to match their resting heart rate. Many trainers recommend calming playlists or CDs with gentle tempos, which can help dogs feel more at ease in stressful situations like car rides or during thunderstorms.

Acupressure and Massage

Animal massage therapists and certified acupressure practitioners can teach techniques that relax tension in your dog’s body and stimulate calming pressure points. These therapies are particularly helpful for dogs experiencing chronic stress or physical discomfort.

Creating a Stress-free Environment

Establish a Safe Space

Every dog needs a sanctuary where they can retreat when feeling overwhelmed. This could be a quiet room, a crate covered with a blanket, or a cozy corner with their favorite toys. Trainers emphasize the importance of creating a positive association with this space by rewarding your dog for choosing to rest there.

Maintain Routine and Predictability

Dogs thrive on routine. Maintaining consistent feeding, walking, and play schedules can help reduce uncertainty and anxiety. Trainers often advise establishing predictable patterns to build trust and confidence in your dog.

Exercise and Outdoor Time

Physical exercise is one of the simplest ways to alleviate stress. A tired dog is a happy dog, and regular walks or playtime help burn off excess energy and release feel-good endorphins. For dogs prone to stress, a structured exercise routine combined with professional training can work wonders.

Mindfulness for Pet Owners

It’s easy to overlook how our own stress levels can impact our pets. Dogs are highly attuned to their owners’ emotions and behaviors. Trainers often stress the importance of staying calm and present when addressing your dog’s stress. Practicing mindfulness, deep breathing, or yoga can create a more serene environment that positively affects both you and your dog.

When to Seek Help

If your dog’s stress persists despite trying these techniques, it may be time to consult a veterinarian, trainer, or animal behaviorist. Chronic stress can lead to serious health and behavioral issues, so professional intervention ensures your dog receives the support they need.

By combining trainer-approved methods, alternative supports like flower essences and pheromones, and a calm, consistent environment, you can help your dog navigate stress more effectively. Patience and care go a long way in transforming your furry friend into a relaxed and happy companion.

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Catherine Winfree

Catherine Winfree is a nationally certified health and wellness coach, medical massage therapist, animal communicator, and flower essence practitioner. Supporting people and their pets to live in harmony with customized flower essence blends is the basis of her Calm Animal Solutions and Be Calm Solutions businesses.

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I always know when the garbage truck is in the neighborhood because my dog goes and hides in the upstairs bathroom.

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I was sure the garbage truck had not come because Shay stayed downstairs all day. Yet, I noticed my neighbors taking their garbage cans back to their houses. I went and checked mine, and sure enough, it was EMPTY! I’m so glad Shay does not feel the need to hide from the garbage truck anymore.

— GM

No More Fear of Thunder and Leaf Blowers

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GOAL:

Comfort with all Noises

Pepper would let me know hours in advance that a storm was on the way. And she always went inside when I was blowing leaves.

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I was surprised to see a thunderstorm rolling in. I was used to Pepper letting me know hours ahead that a storm was on the way. She was curled up on the couch, sleeping through the whole storm. I also noticed she is content to be outside with me while I’m blowing leaves.

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No More Begging to be Carried Downstairs

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No More Jumping on the House Guests

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GOAL:

Calm and Confident Greeter

I'm seeing signs of change in Ginny, every time I sat down, I realized she wasn't jumping on my lap for attention. I've left the house about four times; when I return, she doesn't jump on me until I've put all my stuff down and start petting the dogs.

One week later:

I opened the door to find three dogs, each with all four paws on the floor, wagging their tails. Nobody was jumping on me or winding around my feet, tripping me.

— JU

Improved Dog Training and Behavior

man with dark hair and facial hair crouched down and leaning in close to a white dog with a chest leash

GOAL:

Come Quickly and Steady Leash Walking

I wasn’t expecting much, but the essences have really helped our dog.

One week later:

I noticed Max was responding to the first call to ‘come’. He was pulling less on the leash when he was distracted by a squirrel.

— MB

FROM CAR SICK DOG TO TRAVELING DOG

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GOAL:

Stay Relaxed During Car Rides

We are an on-the-go-family. Our new rescue dog, Sparrow, had a nervous stomach, which made traveling miserable for him.

One week later:

I am so pleased to report Sparrow is much more relaxed in the car—he goes with us everywhere!

— EW

A Trained Animal Communicator Connects with Your Pet

With every order, a trained animal communicator connects with your pet to choose the right blend of flower essences (e.g. Bach Flower Essences) for calming their anxiety. Custom blended flower essences are natural pet calming products.

all-natural vegan and organic ingredients icon
unscented, oil-free, non-herbal, CBD-free and fragrance-free icon
icon showing molecular representation of water against a blue water drop
flower essences icon with blue flowers in the middle
icon showing molecular representation of vegetable glycerin against a blue carrot background

Mandatory FDA Notice: The statements made regarding Calm Animal Solutions have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any animal disease. Although the ingredients in Calm Animal Solutions are generally regarded as safe, you are encouraged to consult your veterinary before using any essence product.

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